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REDEFINING LOVE
My thoughts on non-monogamy,
polyamory, and open marriage
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Sep 93 min read
The Liberation of Imperfection: A Path to Authenticity and Stronger Relationships
I had a profound realization recently that shook my core: not only am I imperfect, a human prone to making mistakes...
Sep 75 min read
What Happens At Burning Man Stays At Burning Man
Describing Burning Man is just as simple as explaining quantum physics to a newborn — nearly impossible.
Nov 23, 20225 min read
In Sickness And In Health
Every morning I do these four actions on my phone: check for any missed messages and calls, play today’s Wordle, look at my calendar to...
Oct 31, 20224 min read
A Practical Guide to Emotional Safety
Emotional safety is about being authentic and sharing thoughts and feelings with another person without any fear. Frequent criticism and...
Feb 23, 20213 min read
I Changed My Mind About Monogamy
Those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything. – George Bernard Shaw Changes happen all the time. The nature of life is...
Feb 8, 20215 min read
Self Love: The Biggest Lesson From My Open Marriage
“Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every relationship you have.” — Robert Holden When my husband and I decided to open...
Aug 1, 20193 min read
What Makes A Relationship Successful?
My dad has a theory that a relationship can only be successful when these four elements are present
Mar 26, 20194 min read
To Date Or Not To Date, That Is The Question: The “No Dating Friends” Rule in Polyamory
The topic of dating friends has come up quite a bit for me recently. In fact, it surfaced multiple times just in the last week in...
Mar 20, 20193 min read
5 Ways Open Marriage Has Positively Affected Our Children
When my husband and I decided to open up our marriage our kids were about 4 and 6 years old. I was worried about how our lifestyle would...
Jan 15, 20194 min read
How I Helped My Husband Set Up His Online Dating Profile on OKCupid.com
It took me close to a year to decide to try online dating after we opened up our marriage. It took my husband six months longer... not...
Dec 18, 20185 min read
We have a choice: monogamy is not the only option
...A story about how I stopped following societal norms While growing up, I was constantly reminded of what an ideal relationship should...
Nov 9, 20184 min read
Let's talk about balance in (polyamorous) relationships
When we decided to open our marriage my husband started dating someone almost right away. For a while I had a crush on a guy that I...
Oct 23, 20183 min read
Missing the butterflies: or how we opened up our marriage
It was our 8th marriage anniversary. We left the kids with the babysitter and went out for dinner at a nice restaurant on University - a...
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Polyamory (Greek πολύ poly, "many, several", Latin amor, "love") is the practice of, or desire for, intimate relationships with more than one partner, with the consent of all partners involved.
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